Winning the battle to become more outgoing is well worth the effort, because you gain confidence and self esteem and this leads to an improved quality of life.
There are many books, courses, and programs dedicated to the subject of how to become more outgoing and gain confidence and self esteem, but to get you started quickly, here are a few techniques that you can practise right now.
* I Feel Wonderful *
Each morning jump out of bed. Literally jump out of bed. Immediately go to a (full length) mirror, stretch out your arms above your head and shout out loud, “I feel wonderful!” Really believe this as you shout it, and repeat it loudly at least 10 times.
This may feel a little unusual to you at first, but if necessary, do it in the bathroom if you’re concerned what other people may think of you.
As these words become absorbed by your subconscious, you will start to feel great about yourself, and much more able to face any challenges during the day ahead.
* Smile *
Smile at yourself when you are in front of a mirror. Smile at people as you pass them in the street and they will smile back at you.
It’s much easier to smile than to frown, and it makes you feel a whole lot better too. You’ll soon gain confidence and self esteem and become more outgoing
* Learn How To Walk *
Your demeanor is a reflection of your confidence and self esteem, and one thing you can do that mimics confident people, is to walk more slowly. Confident people move slowly and with ease when they walk, and they have a pride in their step.
You should follow their example. And if you also hold your head up high, you’ll soon start to notice a difference in yourself. In a short time you’ll walk this way without thinking about it, and you’ll automatically become more outgoing.
* Will This Work For Me? *
97% of all of the people who read this article will let their preconceived ideas come to the fore, and they will do nothing. They certainly won’t become more outgoing or gain confidence and self esteem. They will though moan that nothing works for them, and that life has dealt them a terrible hand!
But if you are one of the open-minded 3% that’s prepared to do something to improve your life, then you will see the rewards. Reward is directly proportional to the effort you put in to it.
Before you laugh and discount the above ideas, we urge you to put any preconceived ideas behind you, and give the above things a try for a month. You will become more outgoing and gain confidence and self esteem and the difference in you will be amazing.
If changing your life is really important to you, and you’d like to crank up your confidence to previously unheard of levels, then the following resources will be of great interest to you.